How to fold and store a flag, and what actually wears one out
The thirteen-fold method is the one most people learn: fold the flag in half lengthwise twice with the blue field showing, then fold triangles from the striped end up toward the field until only the blue triangle remains and the loose edge tucks into the fold. It takes two people and about a minute.
Storing it that way matters less than most people think. What actually kills a flag is the fly end — the free edge farthest from the pole. In wind, that edge whips faster than the rest of the flag and the stitching there takes nearly all the wear. When a flag starts to look tired, the first sign is almost always fraying there, not fading.
Two things buy you extra seasons. Take the flag down in sustained high wind and freezing rain; ice on a wet flag adds weight the seams were never sized for. And when the fly end starts to fray, have it re-hemmed rather than replacing the flag. A tailor will trim the frayed edge and restitch it for a few dollars and you lose maybe an inch of length.
When a flag is genuinely past repair it should be retired properly rather than thrown out. Most local American Legion and VFW posts, and many scout troops, hold retirement ceremonies and will accept a worn flag from anyone who brings one in. None of this is legal advice, and we are not affiliated with any of those organizations.(6)